Unmarried Couples Should Consider a Cohabitation Agreement 

Telling your child about divorce is one of the hardest conversations a parent will have. But with the right approach—tailored to their age—you can help them feel safe and loved, even during big changes.

1. Ages 1–5: Keep It Simple and Soothing

Young kids don’t understand the details—they just need to know they’re loved.

Say:

“Mommy and Daddy are going to live in different houses, but we both love you very much.”

Focus on:

Reassurance

Routines

Physical affection

2. Ages 6–12: Honest, But Gentle

School-age kids may ask questions and worry about blame or loyalty.

Say:

“This is not your fault. We’re both still your parents, and we’re here for you.”

Focus on:

Answering questions simply

Emotional validation

Keeping routines steady

3. Ages 13–18: Respect Their Emotions

Teens can understand more—but that doesn’t mean they’re not struggling.

Say:

“We’re here if you want to talk. You don’t have to go through this alone.”

Focus on:

Open conversation

Encouraging healthy expression

Giving space, while staying present

No Matter the Age:

✅ Reassure them it’s not their fault

✅ Emphasize that both parents still love them

✅ Let them know they can talk to you anytime

✅ Seek the help of a counselor or professional to assist with the matter

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Attorney, Ashley Nicole Green is a  family, divorce, and child custody attorney who services clients in Houston, Harris, Fort Bend, Brazoria, Galveston, and Matagorda County! Contact the Law Office of A. Green today to schedule consultation!

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